Content marketing: Telling Meaningful Stories

Why do we blame people for telling us the truth?

Subscribe to Blog via Email

Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.


Hearing the truth – especially when it’s negative – can hurt.

It’s so much easier to live in la-la land where everything is great. In reality, even when most things are great there are always some that aren’t.

When people share those not so great things with us, it’s easy to fault the messenger:

Well, that’s just your opinion/perception/etc.

I dare you to say that.

Or it might just hurt and we can’t believe they just said that.

Humans like to explain things:

Here’s why you think that.

Here’s why that is your opinion.

Here’s why that happened.

Explaining things away doesn’t make them go away. It just offers a false sense of justification.

But what if it’s the truth. Even if it’s just that person’s perception, perceptions are those specific people’s truths.

It’s easier to judge – in part because that person basically just judged us – but let’s put the immediate judging and defensiveness aside and listen. At least be aware and try. It can be hard to not instinctively move to defensiveness.

Listening can help us understand how other people are experiencing our own authentic stories. Sometimes our stories – or at least parts of them – are positive and some are negative. It’s life and it’s OK that not everything is positive. Seriously!

But, we can only make changes or even consider changes if we listen to other people’s versions of our stories.

It’s OK to listen to others and really try to hear them. Only then is it possible to consider and as necessary make changes.

Like many things, it’s easier said than done, but certainly doable.



Disclaimers: The information provided in articles is for informational purposes only and not personalized advice. It's accurate to the best of my knowledge at the time it's published. Enjoy and best of luck telling the best stories in your organization and life!

Christoph Trappe

Hello and thanks for stopping by. I’m Christoph Trappe.

I’ve written two books, speak at conferences around the globe and blog frequently on here. I love sharing my stories and helping organizations share theirs.

If you need help, just visit the Contact Me page in the navigation and drop me a note. I’m always happy to chat!

Thanks for reading!

– Christoph
ctrappe@christophtrappe.com
319-389-9853

Confirmed talks

 

Dec. 6, 2017
Des Moines, Iowa

 

Lisbon, Portugal
March 3, 2018

May 2, 2018
Victory, Canada

book now

why content marketing projects should be fun

 




Updates in your inbox! No spam!

Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

%d bloggers like this: